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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The handyman lover of a married Queens mom claimed he killed her because he thought she had given him HIV during their two year affair and tossed her laptop into the Hudson river because it had explicit videos. David Bonola, 44, of Queens, was arraigned on Tuesday on a 13-count indictment for the April 16 &#8230;</p>
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<p class="mol-para-with-font">The handyman lover of a married Queens mom claimed he killed her because he thought she had given him HIV during their two year affair and tossed her laptop into the Hudson river because it had explicit videos. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">David Bonola, 44, of Queens, was arraigned on Tuesday on a 13-count indictment for the April 16 murder of Orsolya Gaal, 51, who was stabbed 58 times in her basement and stuffing the body in a duffle bag while her son was upstairs .</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">According to the court documents, when detectives questions him on April 20, Bonoal allegedly claimed Gaal was cheating on him and that, &#8216;She gave me HIV,&#8217; the New York Post reported.  </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;She lied to me, she used me.  She told me that she loved me.  She couldn&#8217;t be with one person.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;I took her laptop because she had sex videos on the laptop,&#8217; he added.  &#8216;I threw her laptop in the Hudson River where I used to visit her.&#8217;</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">  Queens Supreme Court Justice Michael Aloise charged Bonola with two counts of murder in the second degree, two counts of burglary in the first degree, concealment of a human corpse, tampering with physical evidence and criminal possession of a weapon in the fourth degree. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">If convicted, the handyman faces up to 25 years-to-life in prison. </p>
<p class="imageCaption">David Bonola (above), 44, of Queens, was arranged on Tuesday on a 13-count indictment for the April 16 murder of Orsolya Gaal, 51</p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-40c1e2055c9a27db" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/57647979-10802391-image-m-8_1652202757165.jpg" height="718" width="634" alt="Gaal, a mother of two, was found in a duffle bag in the middle of the street in Queens.  Police said she had been brutally stabbed nearly 60 times" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">Gaal, a mother of two, was found in a duffle bag in the middle of the street in Queens.  Police said she had been brutally stabbed nearly 60 times </p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-b4bff105f2562073" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/57647725-10802391-image-a-6_1652202479670.jpg" height="423" width="634" alt="He allegedly told police that he went to her home on the night of the murder because he believed she had given him HIV during their two-year affair" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">  He allegedly told police that he went to her home on the night of the murder because he believed she had given him HIV during their two-year affair</p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-3e10c6034ba464d4" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/57647707-10802391-image-a-14_1652203899296.jpg" height="423" width="634" alt="If convicted, the handyman faces up to 25 years-to-life in prison" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">If convicted, the handyman faces up to 25 years-to-life in prison</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Prosecutors said Gaal had returned to her home in Forest Hills on April 16, at around 12:30 am, when Bonola went into the house just a few minutes later. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Bonola, who had worked as Gaal&#8217;s handyman for the last two years and had an affair with the mother of two, got into an argument with her and went on to slash her throat while they were in the basement, according to the charges. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">NYPD officials said Bonola had gone over to the home in an attempt to resurrect the affair as the relationship had come to &#8216;the end&#8217;. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">According to the statements from the April 20 interrogation, Bonola also confronted Gaal about the HIV claim. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;I told her that I just wanted her to tell me the truth about why she gave me HIV,&#8217; Bonola told police.  &#8216;She said she didn&#8217;t have HIV.&#8217;</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">When Gaal told him the affair was over, he said she grabbed a knife and ordered him to leave, but Bonola told the police he refused. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;I grabbed the knife and cut her from the neck,&#8217; Bonola allegedly told the police.  &#8216;She kept fighting and we fall.  She was moving and trying to grab me so I stabbed her in the neck to get her to stop attacking me.&#8217;</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Prosecutors said he went on to stab her 58 times before grabbing one of her son&#8217;s hockey duffle bags and stuffing her body inside.  Gaal&#8217;s 13-year-old son, Leo, was asleep upstairs when the murder allegedly took place. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Her husband, Howard Klein, and oldest son, Jamie, were out of town looking at colleges. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Video outside the home shows Bonola rolling the bag through the quiet neighborhood before police discovered it near Forest Park at around 8 am </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Prosecutors said police were able to trail the blood from the duffle bag to Gaal&#8217;s home, where the found the knife hidden in the house as well as Bonola&#8217;s jacket. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">After he was arrested and questioned, Bonola allegedly admitted to police that he stabbed Gaal and moved her body, according to court records. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">He also admitted to going to the hospital for a deep cuts he suffered on his hands. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">In a statement following the indictment, Queens District Attorney Melinda Katz said: &#8216;This heinous murder left two teenagers without a mother and terrified an entire community. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;As alleged, this defendant brutally stabbed the victim over 50 times before stuffing her body into a duffel bag &#8211; which he then dragged for several blocks in an attempt to dispose of the victim&#8217;s remains. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;The defendant has now been indicted and arraigned on very serious charges and faces a lengthy prison sentence if convicted.&#8217; </p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-13cac6de27f1096e" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/57647713-10802391-image-a-9_1652202862746.jpg" height="423" width="634" alt="Bonola had allegedly gone to the home on April 16, just after midnight, to try and rekindle a two-year affair he was having with Gaal" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">Bonola had allegedly gone to the home on April 16, just after midnight, to try and rekindle a two-year affair he was having with Gaal </p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-6581f691d4bacab5" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56787455-10802391-This_is_believed_to_be_Orsolya_Gaal_s_killer_dragging_her_body_a-a-22_1652204659313.jpg" height="460" width="634" alt="This is believed to be Orsolya Gaal's killer, dragging her body along the sidewalk after slashing her throat and stabbing her nearly 60 times in her basement" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">This is believed to be Orsolya Gaal&#8217;s killer, dragging her body along the sidewalk after slashing her throat and stabbing her nearly 60 times in her basement </p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-8d3d41823800160" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56892793-10802391-image-a-23_1652204668247.jpg" height="380" width="634" alt="" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />      <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-7de4b97266b630c5" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/20/56890397-10802391-Police_found_the_murder_weapon_above_hidden_inside_Gaal_s_house_-a-1_1652211668257.jpg" height="335" width="634" alt="Police found the murder weapon (above) hidden inside Gaal's house along with Bonola's jacket" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />   </p>
<p class="imageCaption">Police found the murder weapon (above) hidden inside Gaal&#8217;s house along with Bonola&#8217;s jacket </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">The criminal complaint charging Bonola cites both surveillance video footage and his own &#8216;statements and admissions&#8217; as evidence in the case against him.  </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Bonola, who hails from Mexico and had moved to the US more than 20 years ago, was arrested on Thursday. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Police sources who spoke with the New York Post say he spilled his guts in an entirely &#8216;matter of fact&#8217; manner &#8211; and then proceeded to eat a bagel with cream cheese as if nothing had happened.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;It was very matter of fact, very thorough, he answered every question they had,&#8217; a police source told the newspaper.  At no point did he request a lawyer.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Then, as he was put in a police car on Thursday in front of journalists asking why he killed her, he screamed: &#8216;F**k you motherf****r!&#8217; </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Bonola and the victim first started seeing each other in 2020 after he worked in the family home where Gaal lived with her 53-year-old husband and two sons.  It was an on-off relationship which they rekindled in April, but which had recently ended again. </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">According to NYPD sources, Bonola had gone over to the home in an attempt to resurrect the affair after it had come to &#8216;the end&#8217;.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;A heated argument ensues between the two in the basement.  A knife is brandished.  A violent struggle ensues, resulting in our victim being stabbed ruthlessly and brutally in excess of 55 times, causing her demise,&#8217; NYPD Chief of Detectives James Essig explained.  </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">He then retrieved her son&#8217;s hockey bag and waited until 4am, then wheeled her body out of the home and dumped it less than half a mile away.  He also sent a text to Klein, Gaal&#8217;s husband, claiming to have been someone she once sent to jail in a failed attempt to throw police off his scent. </p>
<p>  <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-bc86008493347aba" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/20/56888815-10802391-Orsolya_Gaal_51_-a-2_1652211668282.jpg" height="487" width="306" alt="Orsolya Gaal, 51," class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />     <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-fa083a6e6ec1bd13" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56902229-10802391-Gaal_was_stabbed_58_times_in_the_neck_torso_and_arm-a-31_1652204686334.jpg" height="487" width="306" alt="Gaal was stabbed 58 times in the neck, torso and arm" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />   </p>
<p class="imageCaption">The 51-year-old mother of two allegedly let Bonola inside the home on April 16 </p>
<p>   <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-d3721f6e0ebe080f" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56829549-10802391-Gaal_with_her_sons_17_yearold_Jamie_and_13_year_old_Leo_and_husb-a-33_1652204692004.jpg" height="475" width="634" alt="Gaal with her sons, 17-year-old Jamie and 13-year-old Leo, and husband Howard Klein on Christmas Eve in 2021. Let was in the home at the time of the murder" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />    </p>
<p class="imageCaption">Gaal with her sons, 17-year-old Jamie and 13-year-old Leo, and husband Howard Klein on Christmas Eve in 2021. Let was in the home at the time of the murder </p>
<p>  <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-92727a9cc364e1b5" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56884843-10802391-David_Bonola_44_was_charged_on_Thursday_with_murder_criminal_tam-a-34_1652204696194.jpg" height="404" width="306" alt="David Bonola, 44, pictured" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />     <img loading="lazy" decoding="async" id="i-4e06aa11134ac7fc" src="https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2022/05/10/18/56884947-10802391-One_of_the_images_from_a_Facebook_account_linked_to_Bonola-a-36_1652204696208.jpg" height="404" width="306" alt="One of the images from a Facebook account linked to Bonola" class="blkBorder img-share" style="max-width:100%" />   </p>
<p class="imageCaption">Bonola had worked as a handyman in Gaal&#8217;s home for two years.  He was often seen in his neighborhood riding his bike and playing music</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Those living and working near Bonola&#8217;s 114th Street home described him as being something of a &#8216;night owl&#8217;.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">He was often seen riding his bike and playing music, sometimes carrying a guitar.  the man as being a &#8216;night owl.&#8217; </p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">Bonola had been married once before and had two sons of his own with a woman who had later died.  A local said that Bonola had also served in the Mexican army.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;What&#8217;s the sense of this?  I don&#8217;t know the reason why he did it.  She&#8217;s gone,&#8217; Richie, a worker at 7-11 told Fox News.  &#8216;What did he accomplish?&#8217;</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">A local florist, Martin Calixto, said that Bonola would often stop by and buy a single red rose each and every time.  He even recognized Gaal from photos that Bonola had showed him in the past.</p>
<p class="mol-para-with-font">&#8216;He was very in love with her.  He was talking about her as a very nice girl, very respectful.  It&#8217;s hard to believe.  He was a nice guy, dammit.  For me it&#8217;s hard to believe,&#8217; he went on.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>James DeLange was an established Lutheran minister from Minnesota when he accepted the call to rescue St. Francis Lutheran, a charming but crumbling old church with a small, struggling congregation in San Francisco&#8217;s Castro District. It was 1981. The AIDS crisis was starting to kill the parishioners at “Our Lady of Safeway,” as it was &#8230;</p>
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<p>James DeLange was an established Lutheran minister from Minnesota when he accepted the call to rescue St. Francis Lutheran, a charming but crumbling old church with a small, struggling congregation in San Francisco&#8217;s Castro District.</p>
<p>It was 1981. The AIDS crisis was starting to kill the parishioners at “Our Lady of Safeway,” as it was known, due to its proximity to the grocery store on Market Street.  To fully immerse himself in the pandemic, the new pastor moved to the neighborhood and started attending AIDS walks and vigils.  He had a wife and two kids, but he also became family to those who had been abandoned because of their sexual orientation.</p>
<p>In the late 1980s, the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America had declined to ordain any minister who was openly gay and not celibate, so DeLange offered to ordain them at St. Francis.  This radical inclusiveness got St. Francis suspended from the church in 1990. But it also gave the congregation strength and resolve, celebrated in its annual “Feast of the Expulsion.”</p>
<p>A riveting speaker with a deep, rousing voice that carried across a cathedral, DeLange was serving as guest minister at St. Marks Lutheran Church on O&#8217;Farrell Street in 2017 when he started losing his train of thought and was noticeably scattered while delivering a sermon .</p>
<p>Diagnosed with dementia, DeLange spent his final years at his home in Eureka Valley with a view of his old congregation, and even the Safeway sign on Market Street.  On Aug. 20, two Lutheran ministers who mentored DeLange came to his home to deliver the Lutheran prayer for the dying, much as DeLange had done at the bedsides of men dying of AIDS.</p>
<p>An hour after the prayer session, DeLange died in bed, wearing his red-and-blue St. Francis Lutheran T-shirt and facing the view out the window.  His death was confirmed by his daughter, Lynn Krausse.  hey what 88</p>
<p>&#8220;Jim DeLange was a remarkable and uncommon individual,&#8221; said former state Senator Mark Leno, who knew DeLange through community service both in the Castro and citywide.</p>
<p>“He felt and believed deeply, and he had a stiff backbone when the Lutheran church challenged him and his local colleagues on his inclusivity of the LGBTQ community.  He had my admiration for that,” Leno said.</p>
<p>DeLange&#8217;s impact transcended the Lutheran church.  After the Loma Prieta Earthquake of 1989, he was invited by then-Mayor Art Agnos to join a committee that was forming what would become the San Francisco Interfaith Council in response to both the displacement of people from the earthquake and the growing homelessness population in the City.</p>
<p>“Jim was one of the first to open up his church sanctuary for people to stay during the worst of the winter,” said Agnos, “and he immediately assumed a leadership position in recruiting religious organizations of all faiths to join him in responding to the crisis for the homeless.”</p>
<p>Delange ended up serving on the interfaith council&#8217;s board of directors for 23 years, including a long stint as board chair, from 2004 to 2012. The winter shelter he helped launch still exists, and the council mobilizes the city&#8217;s 800 communities of faith in times of disaster, including the COVID-19 pandemic.</p>
<p>&#8220;Wherever I go in San Francisco people come up to me and tell me how important my dad was to their lives,&#8221; said Krausse.  “How he&#8217;d been kind in the right moment and offered perfect advice and support.  If what they needed was money he would hand them 100 bucks.  He was out there doing God&#8217;s work.&#8221;</p>
<p>James William DeLange was born July 6, 1934 in St. Paul, Minn.  where he grew up. His father, William DeLange, managed an industrial laundry service that specialized in cleaning the work overalls worn by workers at the 3M plant, which made scotch tape and other forms of adhesives.  As a kid, James worked in the plant loading the washing machines and making deliveries of clean uniforms with his dad.</p>
<p>Salvation came through a neighbor who was the pastor at Gethsamene Lutheran Church.  DeLange had been baptized Presbyterian but his mom started taking him to the Lutheran services to support their neighbor, the pastor.  This led DeLange to become active in youth ministry at North St. Paul High School, where he was also involved in drama.</p>
<p>After graduating in 1951 he attended the University of Minnesota, but the Korean was on.  Convinced he&#8217;d be drafted into the Army, he joined the Navy Reserve instead.  This allowed him to transfer to Concordia Theological Seminary in Springfield, Ill. Luckily, he drew soft duty in the Navy Reserve, assigned to setting up the bowling pins in the officers club in St. Paul.</p>
<p>He was off duty and off base when he met Beverly Hansen, a farm girl who&#8217;d come to town to bowl.  She met DeLange at the alley.  They were married in 1957 and Delange was ordained in the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod, a particularly conservative denomination.</p>
<p>A year later, Delange was assigned to start a Lutheran congregation in the growing Orange County city of Huntington Beach.  The flock started in the two-car garage of a house he paid $12,000 for, with a monthly payment of $85.  Faith Lutheran Church, as it was named, quickly outgrew the garage and into a campus to fit a congregation that included more than 1,000 families.</p>
<p>In the mid-1970s a schism between facts of the Lutheran Church divided it into a doctrinaire group that wanted to adhere to biblical infallibility, and a more progressive group.  DeLange was named Executive Secretary of the progressive faction which split off to form the the Association of Evangelical Lutheran Churches.</p>
<p>This cost him his job at Faith Lutheran, which remained in the Missouri Synod.</p>
<p>DeLange and his second wife moved to the Bay Area in 1976. Delange continued in an administrative position for the new Association until he got the position at St. Francis, which had allied itself with the more progressive faction.</p>
<p>When the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America came out against non-celibate Gay ministers, DeLange was a perfect representative for the opposition, having emerged as a progressive Lutheran despite his bringing up in the church&#8217;s conservative orthodoxy.</p>
<p>&#8220;He was seeing the cruelty to the gay community every day in San Francisco,&#8221; said his daughter.  &#8220;To have the church then ostracize the gay clergy became very personal to him so he pushed back against the injustice.&#8221;</p>
<p>By 1985, he was leading the St. Francis contingent in the Pride Parade and soon helped organize the Lutheran Lesbian and Gay Ministries.  St. Francis eventually withdrew from the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America Synod.</p>
<p>“Jim was a straight ally who invested a huge amount of his political capital in the movement for the full inclusion and participation of LGBTQIA+ clergy,” said Jeff Johnson, pastor at University Lutheran Chapel of Berkeley, near the Cal campus.</p>
<p>DeLange was also good with fiscal capital.  When the earthquake hit in 1989, the south-facing brick facade of St. Francis Lutheran came down in a pile.  That provided the impetus for a capital campaign to rebuild the landmark structure which was constructed in 1905-06.  DeLange served as project manager and fund raiser and he did not stop there.  He started a church endowment fund that has grown over the last 40 years to benefit organizations worldwide, according to the current pastor at St. Francis, Bea Chun.</p>
<p>“What Jim did for the congregation was give us a blueprint to follow,” said Chun.  &#8220;We have the inspiration of his courage and his willingness to be an innovator.&#8221;</p>
<p>DeLange&#8217;s second marriage also ended in divorce.  In 1991, he married Diane Nelson, a member of a Lutheran congregation in Mill Valley.  She did her part for St. Francis by launching a senior lunch program with Nelson herself doing the cooking for 50 or 60 hungry souls every Wednesday.  She died of cancer in 2011.</p>
<p>After retiring from St. Francis in 1999, DeLange continued to be minister and busied himself with Democratic Party politics.  His Christmas Day “Green Drink” party was a standard, with people coming by to sip his secret concoction involving Creme de Menthe.</p>
<p>&#8220;Jim was the kind whose door was always open,&#8221; said Leno &#8220;He had such a wide range of acquaintances, from his pastoral work to his community work to his leadership on queer issues.&#8221;</p>
<p>DeLange is survived by his sister Rochelle Schrodt of St. Paul;  daughter Lynn Krausse of Bakersfield;  son Brad DeLange of San Francisco;  stepson Matthew Nelson of Alameda;  stepdaughter Adrienne Brown of Kentfield;  and four grandchildren.</p>
<p>Funeral Services will be at St. Mark&#8217;s Lutheran Church on Saturday September 24th at 10:30 AM.  Memorial donations may be made to St. Francis Lutheran Church 152 Church Street, San Francisco, CA 94114.</p>
<p>  Sam Whiting is a San Francisco Chronicle staff writer.  Email: swhiting@sfchronicle.com</p>
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